S. Iswaran, Senior Minister of State for Education, gave parents the following advice when he was asked about the criticised CSE (Comprehensive Sexuality Education) programme:
Get your facts right on what is happening in Singapore schools when it comes to sex education, and do not base comments on ‘innuendo or information received on the fly’.
It is sad that this comment came from my favorite minister. Ironically, the above comment would somewhat also apply to Mr Iswaran himself, now that the CSE has been suspended by the MOE (Ministry of Education) after a thorough investigation.
I would really hope that Mr Iswaran had gave the above advise only because he was replying on the fly, sort of a knee-jerk action to defend his ministry and not because he was ill-advised by officials ‘ocifails’ working under him. If it was the latter case, then the individual(s) responsible for stumbling my favorite minister should be investigated and dealt with like those who were found to be responsible for the screw-ups leading to Mas Selamat’s escape.
Anyway, Mr Iswaran justified the ministry’s lack of action by because it had not received any complaints about CSE, and thus had no reason to intervene. Did the minister actually think the lack of complaints mean parents are aware of what their children has been taught in school?
It is really hard to believe most children know right from wrong, when it comes to sexual mores, especially when they are in their teens. Furthermore, given the fact that children and teens nowadays already have some form of wayward sex education, no thanks to the liberal arts and media and the proliferation of pornography on the Internet, would most of them provide feedback to parents who are otherwise too busy to give them the required attention during their formative years? I certainly don’t recall going home to tell my parents what I have been taught in school every day when I was schooling.
Chua Mui Hoong, of the abominable Straits Stooge Times, wrote that parents who hold the MOE or other groups responsible for teaching their children morals are simply turning over their parental responsibility to the state. But the point is, when parents are not aware that their children are taught something (or do something) that are in conflict with their own moral views, how are these parents supposed to exercise their responsibilities? Certainly, schools do not keep video recordings of the days’ classes to be made available to parents for review later, do they? Not to mention, we often found parents or family members of suspects talking about just good these people were, while completely oblivious of their other activities. But please, do not issue ‘time sheets’ to write a summary on what they have been taught each day in school as an attempt to correct this oversight. Frankly, I would be horrified if that is done!
Of course, parents has a part to play in educating their children and cannot push that responsibility to schools. A consensus must therefore be reached between parents and the schools when it comes to such issues. There’s no point in having confused kids being taught that homosexuality is a sin by their parents or elders, but is then told it is ‘neutral’ in school.
Based on the above, it is my considered opinion that the usual suspects for government gahmen propaganda can stop telling us that MOE is absolved of all responsibilities in this matter. MOE must answer to not just parents, but the general public whether ‘ocifail(s)’ of the MOE had actually studied and vetted the CSE program in the first place to make sure it conformed to MOE’s guidelines. It appeared to me though, that it was simply all left to the decisions of the schools. After all, MOE wrote in a letter: ‘the schools found that the content and messages of the sessions conducted were appropriate for their students and adhered to guidelines to respect the values of different religious groups‘. It had said nothing about its role in deciding on this matter.
If the assumption above is correct, the public must be informed on how the schools which adopted this programme come to their decisions. Was it a committee or an individual who made the decision? Beyond that, is there any mechanism in place by MOE to audit any of these processes and decisions? If the general public has no clue what goes on in this particular ‘black box’ just like me, it is clear that once again that Singapore’s main stream media (and in particular the Stooge Times) is found to be wanting in investigative journalism. Call it deteriorating journalism too, if you wish!
So, it is really is quite amazing to see that in less than a week, the MOE now decides that CSE ‘did not conform to MOE’s guidelines in some aspects’ after a thorough investigation. Does this mean that CSE was never thoroughly reviewed before its approval? Is someone either sleeping on his job or simply negligent? Or more ominously, is someone within MOE or a teacher usng his / her position to push the homosexual agenda through the backdoor? A programme which promotes homosexuality – technically still illegal under the laws of Singapore – went under the radar of the ministry and entered our schools right under our noses! Without Josie Lau and her now much vilified ex-ExCo, would we even be aware of this matter? Pity these female-activist equivalent of the 82nd or 101st Airborne… they got sort of massacre and no one even shed a tear for them!
The gahmen, and not just the MOE, should really take a more serious views on this matter and conduct an investigation to identify those responsible. This material has not only offended the sensibilities of both Muslims and Christians, but also promoted activities that are against our laws. In fact, there’s a term for this kind of activities: subversion, if not sedition.
It is my fear that if such subversive activities are unchecked, this will embolden certain elements within society to continue in such activities that will threaten and destabilised social and religious harmony in our country.
On a lighter note, two different friends (who are less extreme than I) have also expressed concern that certain undesirable developments might take place from here. The first friend expressed concern that the gahmen may take the results of the AWARE EGM as indication that our society is now more open and accepting of homosexuality and thus take action to that effect. The second friend is concerned that Singapore’s low birthrate will be further aggravated with the increase acceptance of homosexuality. In the end, he is concerned there could only be a further relaxing of laws to allow more immigrants – who may have no respect to our values and traditions, and our way of life – to make up for the loss of population.
In both cases, both have expressed that these are developments they do not wish to see.
Recommended Reads:
Call It Grace: The Queen’s Gambit
Joel Joshua Goh’s Notes: True AWAREness
Hi Grievous
Doesn’t mean that someone also gets it wrong means that you should also get it wrong right? 🙂
Anyway, my point about the teen is that before you frame your “nicely written article”, have you considered what and how a teen would feel and think about this?
I know as parents we have the duty to protect our children but giving them knowledge is probably the best protection in my view…
Anyway, regarding the CSE, your so-called sodomy acts is only illegal if performed by males – the very same acts (buggering your wife) is perfectly legal…
So how can you say that the CSE is not neutral if it’s done by a heterosexual couple?
Besides, if they are teaching it mainly to young girls – how is it “homosexual” in nature? I don’t think they have what guys have to stick it there – forgive my crude language…
Actually I am not the supporter for the JL Exco, I am only grateful that they exposed the CSE. And the support to be shown with louder voice, would be there to be against the CSE, not so for JL team.
But I am disturb by the press media agenda, as they are one-sided.
The greater fear is that if we don’t stand up to talk about it, we won’t know what is going on behind our back. Keeping quiet may also mean to them that the more noises they make, they would gei things their way, and change the majority conservative value.
Very well written post again. Your fear is the fear of mine and the majority.
The process of decision making in everything should be re-examine, and the process for selecting of vendors for CSE should be fully investigated.
Sorry, your favorite SMS really make a crown of himself, and his statement worded so strongly before the aware EGM, would had caused the embarrassment of the Josie Lau and team, and their eviction from the committee. Should yesterday statement by MOE been released last week before the EGM, what would be the outcome, I think 3 times the turnout of that EGM would had taken place. You would imagine, which team would be of the stronger voice.
The old group of aware so strongly stand by their CSE, I just wonder when the press media, would digged out the profile of the present team. And whether the present elected group would step down, since they called the ex-team liar, and won ‘unfairly’.
Yes, what is the agenda of the press media in running all the profile of Josie Lau and team, and not the present team, which part of the committee, were also make up of new members, are they pro-homosexuality?
I believed that the pro-homosexuality group should not push their sphere and influence too far, and expected the majority to behave exactly as what happen during the EGM for the minority, they would be very surprised, with the change of force, and allow the hooligan behavior as in the EGM, to suppress the majority values.
Not hopeful that my comment will be published but here goes…
Your article is a waste of bandwidth cos you can’t even get your facts right…
Maybe I was sleeping in a cave for the last few years but tell me which law in Singapore says homosexuality is illegal here?
If you are refering to Sect 377A, it only says sodomy (homosexual acts) are illegal.
Gays don’t get arrested for being who they are…of course unless you are insinnuating that they should!
And strange how you can call the old AWARE’s CSE as subversion and not mention the JL-led EXCO as subversion as welll – why the need for stealth and deceit?
And lastly – have you even asked how a teen (yes – the very audience) how he/she feels about the CSE?
If not, I suggest you read the comments found under Dr Catherine Lim’s very balanced letter to concerned parents…
One such teen did post her/his insight and opinion about the whole matter.
http://www.rcpsych.ac.uk/pressparliament/pressreleases2009/statement.aspx
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The Royal College shares the concern of both the American Psychiatric Association and the American Psychological Association that positions espoused by bodies like the National Association for Research and Therapy of Homosexuality (NARTH) in the United States are not supported by science. There is no sound scientific evidence that sexual orientation can be changed. Furthermore so-called treatments of homosexuality as recommended by NARTH create a setting in which prejudice and discrimination can flourish.
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homosexuals willl be homosexuals, I suppose the fundies would prefer that gay people decieve some woman (like ted haggard, larry craig etc) , live a lie, produce some kids (homosexually is probably genetic, or epigenetic) and then at the side have a boyfriend.. I suppose that’s a happy ending?
perhaps one should read on how reparative therapy has failed.
http://www.beyondexgay.com/article/apology
very funny. No one complains so no action.
If I see kids banging at the void deck but no one complains, does that make the act legally and morally correct?